My Partner?

"My Partner" makes me sound like i am in a business arraingment..........

You see i have heard this term used way to much when reffering to realtionships. Lets face it I guess marriage or relationships are a partnership of sorts. But if it was a business reationship (which we should call it since money is exchanged) it would be considered prostitution. This may upset an un open person trying to defend the family values and such. But you lay down in bed with someone and it is really all about money. Life that is, all about money.

In todays economy you can not really afford to live alone. You must have a roomate or a well paid partner/spouse. Some may say "Hey Marriage is about love" I say Horse Shit.

If marriage was about love we would not be trying to make a man/woman thing. Love has nothing to do with it. It is all about power a rights when it comes down to it. I personally feel marriage is about (political) Monetary gain. One can not purchase property without another to help with a credit score or money.

Unless you have a silver spoon in a family members mouth or you have a really good paying job. To be quite frank I am a skilled educated individual and there are no jobs worth working 16 hours a day to make a mortgage payment on a home I will never see. If I wanted a home that bad I would have to buy something a little less extravagent.

On the other hand calling marriage a family values thing is a hillarious conversation. Define family values. You can't truly base it one anything we have had in the past because again that was the past and we are changing the idea of family values because of that issue. All families have issues but the most incest rape and abuse happened during the times we consider our contry to have the highest value on family. Lets us also remember all of those times we before we really got educated and began to think for ourselves.

How do I know the facts on abuse and Incest? I study and read just like everyone else. Also, I myself have lived through such thing and have had to councel a countless number of people who have those issues in their families. For instance I know a 52 year old woman who has no idea if her mother was her mother or if her mother was really her sister..... And that was not in Arkansas that was California. Another one I know a 23 year old who has a five year old sister that is actually her daughter... But dues to cover ups and hide and seek quaity of life her mother had a pregnancy that was through her daughter *miracle of miracles**

So, if you want family values start valuing your family. Take responsability for your childrens actions teach them morality since the schools can't any longer. Take the time to make sure your little Jack or Jill is not the newest hellion on the block and beat them without leaving marks if they are. Oh, wait that would require giving up the 16 hours a day at a job you hate so much. That would require spending time with your children. There we are, you need a partner.